It's been said that "jealousy is the raw material of murder." If looks could kill that little girl on the right is about to prove the statement.
I like this definition of jealousy: "Jealousy is a complex emotion that encompasses feelings ranging from fear of abandonment to rage and humiliation. Jealousy strikes both men and women and is most typically aroused when a person perceives a threat to a valued relationship from a third party. The threat may be real or perceived. It is not limited to romantic relationships but also can arise among siblings competing for parental attention or in friendships. Jealousy is distinguished from envy in that jealousy always involves a third party seen as a rival for affection. Envy occurs between two people and is best summed up as 'I want what you have.'"
I've seen a small start-up church almost ruined because of this sin. A talented man who however didn't get his way, sulked and then worked stealthily to lead a group of people away from the growing church. It hurt many lives and was designed to ruin the church. But, God prevailed and today the church has matured, been blessed of God and holds forth the Word of Truth.
The love chapter declares "love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous" (1 Corinthians 13:4). It's an ugly emotion but, interestingly, God uses it for good too. Joseph's brothers were jealous of him but through their nefarious actions, Joseph ended up being a ruler in Egypt which then led to Israel's miraculous escape and eventual settlement in the promised land.
Praise God, He rules but also over-rules and His will is wrought. What a God!
dick christen
